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Spanking Pt 2.1: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DJcQjn89ASU
Pt 2.2: (More) Pt 2.1: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DJcQjn89ASU
Pt 2.2: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=arXO-rn0Hgc
Our inheritance from the ignorance of religion and the harm it does those who cannot protect themselves from it.
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Teaches them one thing.
Violence is an answer and when you are bigger than someone beating them up is how you get your way.
Has NOTHING to do with teaching them right from wrong.
Kids cannot see your objective, nor will they believe you if your excuse contradicts your actions... nor should they.
They can only see and WILL only LEARN from your tactics; in this case violence is the answer when I want something from someone.
Those are the facts, now my opinion.
Parents resort to spanking when they are tired, stressed and at their wits-end and cannot think of what to do next to:
Get their attention
Get them to listen
Get them to/not to _____
And, finally, the one that break out the belt/hand of those who swore they would never hit their kids; when the kid does something that scares the HOLY SHIT out of them
So, they hit the kid. Justified by past parents, others who say they "turned out GREAT", use words like "pat" and "spank" (never think reality: hitting and assult... though that is what it is, what it would be if someone did it to you just to get you to listen to them or to sit down at work). Justify it by telling themselves, "it's only a last resort" & "my family turned out great, except ____ and that's different", "other people need counseling to help them learn how to ______ not me! I've already raised ____ kids!"....
& the hits just keep coming....
But they are all lies.
Hitting is hitting... if you don't feel like it is justified against you... it is not against them.
There is not ONE situation that cannot be resolved without violence, not ONE.
Therefore, there is no excuse... I don't give a shit how many generations have done it for how long, that is the stupidest excuse I have ever heard of... I had lead paint in my room and I turned out fine... dumb.
http://www.jiskha.com/social_studies/psychology/spank_child.html
http://www.nospank.net/n-j14.htm
http://www.religioustolerance.org/spankin5.htm
http://www.connectionparenting.com/parenting_articles/spanking.html
Spanking Undermines Discipline
- Loving Alternatives -
by Pam Leo
"It's not nice to hit people; children are people."
- Pam Leo
"NEW YORK (AP) -- After analyzing six decades of expert research on corporal punishment, a psychologist says parents who spank their children risk causing long-term harm that outweighs the short-term benefit of instant obedience.
The psychologist, Elizabeth Gershoff, found links between spanking and 10 negative behaviors or experiences, including aggression, anti-social behavior and mental health problems. The one positive result of spanking that she identified was quick compliance with parental demands.
"Americans need to re-evaluate why we believe it is reasonable to hit young, vulnerable children, when it is against the law to hit other adults, prisoners, and even animals," Gershoff writes in the new edition of the American Psychological Association's bimonthly journal." (Less)
Spanking 2.1 The first one: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vZ0Ru_tLcFs
2.2: (More) The first one: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vZ0Ru_tLcFs
2.2: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=arXO-rn0Hgc
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It is not teaching them about life... in life a cop does not pull you over for speeding, slap you then let you go on your way. There are environmental consequences for choices.
When I was a kid I WANTED a spanking because it was easier.
The kids that changed their behavior after a spanking were WORKING their parents because they were smarter than their parents... I envied them.
"http://www.cnn.com/HEALTH/9708/14/nfm.spanking/index.html
Study: Spanking kids leads to long-term bad behavior
August 14, 1997
Web posted at: 9:37 p.m. EDT (0137 GMT)
CHICAGO (CNN) -- In the long run, it turns out that sparing the rod may not spoil the child after all. Indeed, according to a study released Thursday, the opposite may be true: Spanking a child may produce long-term ill effects.
Based on interviews with the mothers of about 3,000 children, researcher Murray Straus of the University of New Hampshire found that corporal punishment is counterproductive, resulting in more antisocial behavior by children in later years.
Parents may not see this "boomerang" effect because it happens over weeks or months, according to the study, which appears in the latest issue of the American Medical Association's Archives of Pediatrics and Adolescent Medicine.
"Spanking chips away at the child's liking for, and trust of, the parent," Straus said. "One has to look at long-term effects of these things."
CNN's Pat Etheridge reports.
Researchers analyzed survey data from 807 mothers of children ages 6 to 9, taken in 1988 and 1990. They compared levels of antisocial behavior among spanked and unspanked children over that interval.
The more spanking a child received at the beginning of the study, the higher level of antisocial behavior at the end, according to the researchers.
Antisocial behavior was defined as cheating, lying, disobedience at school, breaking things deliberately, not feeling sorry after misbehaving or not getting along with teachers.
The study found that the higher levels of antisocial behavior were independent of other traits that could affect that behavior, such as a family's socioeconomic status and the amount of support parents give their children.
Parental warmth and support do tend to lessen the effects of spanking but do not cancel them, Straus said.
The results of this study are likely to be debated, because previous research has shown that 90 percent of U.S. parents spank their children. A majority of pediatricians and psychologists also do not discourage occasional corporal punishment.
In addition, corporal punishment in the classroom is still legal in 23 states.
Many parents spank only as a last resort and say they feel horrible about it afterward. Some would rather use other forms of discipline, if only they would work. Parenting classes offer advice about alternatives, because occasional swats can sometimes lead to harsher hitting.
Psychologist Irwin Hyman, author of the book "The Case Against Spanking," agrees with Straus' study.
"There is never a reason to spank a child, period," Hyman said. "There's no other place in society where someone can ... smack another person. So why should we be able to do this to children?"
But Ted and Andrea Fouriezo, who have four children under the age of 6, defend spanking as a necessary means of setting and enforcing limits with their kids.
"We feel that the parents have to be the parents," Andrea Fouriezo said. "You can't let the children run circles around you, which they will. Kids want to push their limits."
"There (are) also times where they're trying to hurt themselves and we just have to stop them, especially when they were (at) the toddler stage -- touching hot plates or trying to get themselves up on the stove," said Ted Fouriezo.
Correspondent Pat Etheridge and Reuters contributed to this report". (Less)
Real Spanking Family - Mother Spanks Daughter 1 
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Real Spanking Family - Mother Spanks Daughter 1
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